Banky W and Wife Adesua Share Their Childbirth Struggle: Twins Also
6 April 2021
Banky W and Wife Adesua (photo cred - youtube)
Celebrity couple, Banky W and Adesua Etomi were at the Waterbrook Church in Lagos on Easter Sunday to share a testimony of how they went through a childbirth struggle, losing their twins and the arrival of their first child.
Shortly after the news of the birth of their son hit social media, Banky W released a song called final say, a gratitude and motivational record which was inspired by the whole experience.
Telling the story to the Waterbrook congregation on Sunday, Banky W in a message titled “Final Say Faith” shared via his official YouTube page, Banky W said the purpose of the message was to remind the congregation and viewers at large that delay and disappointment is not denial.
“Your faith in God will not prevent you from hurting, it will help you heal, get back up and keep on going, trying and believing until your breakthrough comes,” the caption continued.
Both Banky W and wife, Adesua took turns in sharing details of this trying time and couldn’t help but break down in tears at intervals.
During a routine checkup, Adesua was told by the doctor that she couldn't find the heartbeat of her two embryos and after another check, an evacuation had to be done as it was certified that the embryos were in fact dead.
“I’m sharing this because so many women go through this but nobody talks about it because it is almost like a thing of shame, for whatever reason and I don’t know because you don’t control your body, you don’t create yourself,” Adesua said to encourage more women to speak up and also put it out there that it is no shame to lose a baby. These things happen!
You can watch the full hour long session via youtube here -