KENYA: Juliani Narrates The Good, The Bad and The Ugly of His Life Before Christ and How He Lost His Virginity at Age 12
19 May 2016
Rapper Juliani has been making news since yesterday after an article he published detailing his childhood life before he met God and how he lost his virginity at 12 years old.
The latter is what seems to have captured the attention of many and justifiably so. According to the rapper growing up in Dandora, he got exposed to a lot at a young age including things of the sexual nature.
“By the time I was in class 3 we were already exposed or somehow introduced to sex. There was always a naked magazine being passed around when the teacher has his back on us, concentrating on the black board busy trying to find X,” writes Juliani.
Even at a young age he says, it was not uncommon for boys and girls to be known as boyfriend and girlfriend but even more shocking they were already getting intimate.
“ule ni dame wangu” Placing your hand on a girls chest was one of those things all too familiar at this point of our age. We knew who was sleeping with who, yes! — as Much as sometimes you can’t trust boys stories. Unfortunately we had proof. In primary school, a boy would not go to visit a girl alone, he has to roll with his boyz. Partly as security in case there is another boy trying to put his hand on that cooky jar or because of her brothers, brothers tend to be too possessive.
And then came the moment of truth for him, the day he lost his virginity. He goes on to vividly describe the details of when, where and how he lost it. The act happened at the ‘school toilet’ he revealed.
My experience happened in the school toilet. Every Friday in our school was overall cleaning day. Whereby classes took turns in washing the entire school. This particular Friday was our turn. The teacher were always not around, the activities were supervised by headboys and school prefects. I was tense but I had to do what I had to do after all few of my friend knew what I was up to. The girl of my choice was tall, light skinned and we always make eye contact in class. I occasionally threw chewed paper at her; this wasn’t paper Mache, we called it paper mate! Strange childish way of declaring love!
The date was set. The girl’s washroom of course were separate from the boys but after a certain hour of time the rules don’t apply. I didn’t know what it means, how to do it. I just had to. My “partner in crime” was aware and we made a decision; how and when it’s gonna go down. And it went down! The clothes and indeed the deed.
As to why they were doing it at such a young age, he says “Sex for us was more out of curiosity and experimental. What we didn’t know was the lasting effect and we awaken desires that were better left dormant.
“By the time we were in class eight many girls had dropped out of school because of early pregnancy,” he explains.
And even after he got saved, he says it was still hard for him too fight the temptations since they’d already become second nature.
Even after been born again, it was a hard habit to get rid off. God saves you but it take more time to reverse the habits and addiction that you were into.
Throughout this experiences I cannot recall ever becoming richer, brighter or better after engaging into sex. We make it Look like it is everything and in reality after, we gain nothing.
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