KUKACHORA: ''Your female boss akikuambia anadai sex ndio akuongezee salary na unajua CEO ni bwana yake, utachoraje?''

''Life is a projection of the mind. So your life is only as good as your mind.'' Mother would always tell me whenever I asked why life is not fair. We find ourselves unconsciously or consciously climbing this invisible ladder called life in everything we do. So here's a question: ''Your female boss akikuambia anadai sex ndio akuongezee salary na unajua CEO ni bwana yake, utachoraje? ‪#‎Kukachora‬''

As complicated as it sounds, there are only two possible outcomes from the above, because life is really that simple. It's a coin. A two sided one.

The fairytale ending

John Kuria accepted her boss's invitation for dinner.

Eventually, they got married

"Jennifer, my wife is as a great boss. Because we were closer in age, I wasn't in awe of her. I
guess when she asked me out, it didn't come as a surprise, " says Joseph, 32, a placement consultant.

Thank God, for us it was more than just the sex.
Joseph has a piece of advice: Leave your professional relationship behind in the office.

"I made it clear that I had accepted her offer as a friend and not as a boss. From then on, we just got to know each other better in an informal environment but never let it affect work," says Joseph.

The horror story

Not everyone is as lucky as Joseph Kuria, Sam, has had not one but four ex-bosses demand sex from him out at different stages in his career. It is an experience he would much rather forget.

Of the four, two were married.

"My boss and I were leaving to attend a meeting in another city. She kissed her husband and kids at the airport and when we reached our destination, she knocked at the door of my hotel room all night. I was frightened out of my wits," he says.

"My bachelor bosses kept asking me out. I was too afraid to confront them and of the repercussions this would have at work," adds Sam.

If you are not the sort to firmly answer in the negative, try Mohini's approach. "I'd say yes and never show up or would land up with other colleagues -- people I had confided in. My bosses got the message, eventually. Which led me to being fired. Another one of my bosses got so used to the sex that she ruined my relationships with all the females I ever tried to date.''

''The husband of another read in between the lines and caught us having sex late at night in the office. He almost killed me.'' Added Sam

What would you do? Would you risk your life for the raise and have fine while the playground is clear, or would you do otherwise? Utakaachora aje?